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Sara
12-12-2005, 09:33 PM
Ok, I'm stealing an idea from Jenny. She gave a speech last October about her life. When she gave the speech, she drew a graph, pointing out where the highs and lows of her life fell on the graph. She explained all the high and low points. I thought it would be interesting to see your life graphs and read about your lives.

So, here is a template picture that resembles the one Jenny drew:
http://groups.msn.com/_Secure/0QgCLAkkUp7FKKvN!mqpQsbLclOlKQqtLxIxy6KE9dprLEmqFFk6D3FxrMNhDZWedg!qsRg69uK!1yHUsqo2qRXrK3e5grEOvuBg6RpCCx2s/template.bmp?dc=4675551531505924783

You draw a graph with the positive life events above the line and the negative events below the line. You write what your age was when the big events took place and write one or two word descriptions for each event. Your age now goes in the top right corner.

Here is what my graph looks like:
http://img484.imageshack.us/img484/7236/sara11ye.th.png (http://img484.imageshack.us/my.php?image=sara11ye.png)

And here are the explanations my of highs and lows:

8: I had a lot of hospital visits when I was younger. I had asthma and pneumona at the same time and was hospitalized for two weeks in the winter. I came back with a fear of needles and blood ...:sick:

9: My parents divorced when I was nine. The divorce didn't bother me. The hardest part was moving, leaving everything, and nearly everybody I knew.

12: I became an Acer! 1994 rocked! My friends got tired of it soon enough.. but I didn't! HAHA!

14: I was in middle school. Not fun! Got bullied, like almost everyone does. I took it a little harder than most but I came out the other side of it with a healthy respect for the compassion of others.

16: I got to live in Sweden as an exchange student. It was fun to begin with...

17: ...but became a lot harder. I created my own little version of Hell and lived in it. Anxiety piled up and nothing was ever the same.

20: I was able to let go of many things that happened in my past and started looking toward the future. It helped a lot. I returned to some old places and was able to give up the 'old ghosts' which followed me around.

23: After many years of thinking and studying, I embraced the Christian faith and was baptised. This was partly due to some posts at THB!

Now it's your turn! Use Paint or another program to draw your graph and write about your life!

André
12-13-2005, 04:46 AM
Sara, why doesn't your graph start at zero? Did you enjoyed your birth so much, LOL?

Ok, here's mine:
http://img229.imageshack.us/img229/3614/graph1vs.th.jpg (http://img229.imageshack.us/my.php?image=graph1vs.jpg)

Starting at zero I had a really happy childhood.

It got even better when I turned 6 and my family was allowed to leave the country. We started anew in West Germany.

When I was 11 I suffered from accute hearing loss. It took me a long time to adjust, get over it and the bullying at school.

I think that happened when I was 14/15 and moved to Munich. I found new friends and the city life was something just something for me.

From then it went uphill. There were a few times when I wasn't really happy, e.g. when I had to come to terms with my sexuality, looking for a job, seeing my grandmother dying or when my dad got ill.... but it all turned out to be okay.

Now at 25 I can trully look back for the first time and realize that maybe it wasn't all that bad. It could be worse. I got a great family (not counting aunts etc *yikes*), I had a lot of fun, and I'm still having it, I met many good people, I achieved something, I learned from my mistakes! I'm healthy, I have a great job, I have plans for the future.... and I even found someone... :-*

salatfresser
12-13-2005, 10:21 AM
interesting stories..

:phew:

Comparing how my graph would look like.. would be pretty boring, i think i had a really happy life until now.. My deepest down was 4 years ago when i had to go to Germany and i didn't want to, i wanted to stay in Chile (girlfriend, friends), but all my family moved there so i just went with them. I was depressed for like a year, i didn't know what to do in Germany (i was 19 and soooo lost), and i began to eat... a lot.. lol.
But then i felt really good in Germany. But i knew i didn't want to stay there for the rest of my life so i thought it's better going back to Chile, where i feel more comfortable :-)
I'm very happy here, but i don't feel that i want to stay here either.. I feel atracted to spain now.. and that would be my next challenge :devil: after finishing studies here.

I had no tragical deaths or deseases in my family, i think that makes me lucky, and i'm so grateful about that.

:-P


André, wo hast du gelebt in der DDR?

André
12-14-2005, 10:51 AM
In Chemnitz, LOL!

It must feel strange if you don't have a place where you feel home, or at least a place you want to stay in the future, no?

salatfresser
12-14-2005, 11:07 AM
Gut, dass ihr auswandern konntet :-)

I feel at home. In Germany too, but often i feel that i have to change the place. I get bored so quickly... :-P I hope someday i'll find a place where i can say that i want to stay there forever.